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Thread: Marriage... How does a foreigner marry a chinese woman?
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[quote=MICKKINCHINA,257388]Hi Shadowman I myself are by no means rich! but to try to answer some of your questions! here goes. Our wedding in Total cost around 45,000Y we had already had photo's which cost around 5000Y done before the wedding, as for giving a Wedding gift to my Lao Po's family, They did not want anything! the only thing they wanted was for me to look after her and love her. Of coures she will hope that you will help her family if help is needed! the chinese woman are usually very close to there familys. When I married my Lao Po I knew I was also marrying her family, And I think it's great! I now have 2 of the best mothers in the world. Does she just want a visa? Ahhhhhhhh the big question!! I often hear people talking about this, I agree with Carlos! you should not just rush into marriage, you say that you are 90% sure! to be honest you should treat this like any other relationship, if you cannot put your hand on your heart and say that you are 100% sure about the situation, you should not marry. Because 1 small seed of doubt will grow as time goes by, you may not think it now but later things will become difficult! which will put a huge strain on your relationship which I can gaurantee will have lots of misunderstandings anyway. I noticed that you said (when she realizes that I can't afford to buy her parents a house, perhaps her so called "love" for me will vanish.) This sentance sounds full of doubt to me! My advise is get to know her much more and try to gain a better understanding of who she really is inside, and what she wants for your future together, tell her your financial situation in passing conversation! Also suggest maybe that you will concider living in china when married! see how she reacts to not getting the visa!! If she wants to be with you for Love, not a visa, not for money, you will only find out as you get to know her more. Regards Michael [/quote]
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