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[quote=GUESTUSE YOUR BRAIN,350558]Hey guys, That is not unusual from what I have heard. When I went to visit my ladies, I made sure I had several to choose from. We are equipped with a sixth sense to protect us from such shrews. I had a funny feeling about a couple of them, I knew they were up to something, but it was difficult to say what, but something was not right. I didn't stick around long enough to find out what it was, I just knew. One of them was a very good actress, but it just was not right. But I found one that I felt very good about. We have been together for almost a year, and she is the girl of my dreams. I don't think I have to spy on her, I trust my own feelings. There are many women out there that will do anything to get their hand on your money. Look for some of the signs. If they want to get married quickly, or fall in love too quickly, those are signs you should be aware of. Remember, it is only to their advantage to get married, not yours. They can take your money away just as quick in China as they can here. You will need a lawyer and go the the divorce process just like your home country. If she wants to hurry things up, be very cautious. I don't mean take years, no woman wants that, but never be talked into something you are not comfortable with. My woman did not hurry me at all, she also wanted to wait to see what kind of person I was. That is the biggest clue you can have. the other women I met could not hide the fact that they wanted to get married quickly. That turned me off right away. There are many other little signs. One of the women I had met always mixed up facts about me. I am pretty sure that she had some many other men she had met on the Internet that she could not keep her facts straight. My lady never forgot or mixed up a single fact, no matter how small. She tried to pay for all she could, even with her meager salary. Just because a woman offers to pay for some of the expenses does not mean she is for real. She is worried about her good looks, but it is not only for you. She should be comfortable with you. Watch for clever ways she may ask for money, without directly asking for it. One woman told me she had lost her job and at the same time needed an operation. She had her operation, and told me all about it. Problem was that the operation she told me she had did not exist. She did not affect my sympathy reflex at all, she just exposed herself. There is no sure way of knowing, there are some real academy award winners out there. You must rely on your instincts. If you feel that something is not right, it is probably true. When you are having a relationship with a woman who is a liar, it will show up sooner or later, do not accept excuses, use your brain. All those pretty little anecdotes have some meaning here. a fool and his money are soon parted, and if something is too good to be true, it probably is. It is a dog eat dog world out there, China has a good share of them. Been there, done that.[/quote]
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