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Thread: Chinese women and American men
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[quote=GUEST18921,387596]The Chinese woman has several characteristics that are very odd to westerners. For many reasons of economics, history and hardships, Chinese women consider it their duty to support their parents. Why is this different from Westerners? We have typically social safety nets for seniors, and our parents usually have considerable financial resources of their own. In China they do not exist. Also, historically, a Chinese woman may do horrible jobs to support her parents and *brother* if she has one. They desire a baby to please their parents as much as themselves. The Chinese woman would not see it strange to send her baby to be raised by its grandparents or the mother's aunt if this allowed the Chinese mom to continue to earn money. The Chinese woman definitely feels capable of subjugating both her own feelings and the feelings and desires of her husband or male partner to achieve the goals of her family. To a western woman, it's an anathema to have a relative raise her newborn baby. As far as the war of the sexes, Chinese women have guile and cleverness bred in the crucible of thousands of years of being used by Chinese men, including their fathers. So, the typical Chinese woman is extremely capable playing "the game of love". The western man should not be fooled by the kind, considerate, sexy nature of the Chinese woman. She is not to be confused with Japanese for example. A Chinese woman sees no problem deceiving and manipulating a man to get what she really wants. She will absolutely, positively marry for financial gain. The Chinese woman does indeed see western men as kinder, gentler, more considerate and sexy than the average Chinese man. Successful Chinese men have affairs and their wives suffer. Some may ask why I know this? I had a Chinese girlfriend from Shanghai. She was a master of intrigue and tried to take advange of my kindness just when I had a difficult time in my life. After the traumatic death of a parent, she also knew I had received an inheritance so this was her time to pressure me. She is now confilcted inside herself. She loves me, but she wants to play tough with me and get "what I want" from some other guy. So, what is her soluton? She wants me to continue to be her "special friend"=sex partner, while she gets her new guy to provide her with the other things she wants. The other things? Bring her parents to the USA to live with her, including her unemployed brother, etc,etc. Get the picture? To her, a man is a means to an end. To other women, e.g. Mexican, Peruvian, etc. men and relationships are an end in themselves. Her most interesting quote texted to me was "I love you. But, love is not enough. We have to face reality." Western men, beware the CRDF="Chinese reality disruption field". This field extends several meters around that gorgeous sexy Chinese woman you are gazing at. [/quote]
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