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[quote=APAULT,251042]Scott. I think the first piece of advice is 'be patient!' Firstly things here do take some time and you have to be ready for issues that will have to be overcome. But also from persoanl experience, - one step at the time! Sure think ahead but come over and meet and see how things go, build the relationship, get the genuine photos, and then be in a position where you can approach your authorities and honestly show them that the two of you are indeed an item. At the mment you are 'hopefuls' :) There are many cultural; issues though I believe they are easily exaggerated. Be flexible and learn. You may have disagreements but if you can talk them through and understand each other you will overcome the issues and bukid the basis for the future. Despite that my one area of warning is that you should ask the lady to take things slowly... be cautious in how she presents your relationship to family and friends, and allow tme for both sides to adjust. In some ways there is a bigger generation gap between Chinese parents and their kids than we are used to - China has changed so much in such a short time. If you treat parents and older relations rather like was the case in western countries a generation or two ago, you won't go far wrong. Good luck. [/quote]
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