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[quote=GUEST33240,406149]GUEST: I have been to China six times and leave again in a week. I have lived in China twice and in 2004 I married a Chinese lady I met on the internet but not through Chn.love. I did a K-1 visa (fiancee) through the Embassy in Guangzhou and it took time..I brought her to America and we later divorced...I tell you this only that you know I do know alot about China. forget the Chinese Embassy..they don't do anything. I met a girl last year on Chn.love and wrote for six months. I went to China last year where I worked in Beilun-Ningbo..I went to see her in Wuhan. At the airport ...I didn't even recognize her...she was pretty, but very dark, stringy hair, and very skinny !! I do speak some Putonghua (Mandarin) and her translator was there and wanted 600rmb a day....what a rip-off !! I met the people at the agency and found out the flowery letters she had nothing to do with..it was her female interpretor. I dismissed the interpretor and my lady got mad.....She eventually decided to come to Ningbo from Wuhan to see me but not before I dished out 1,000s of rmb to the agency, the ladies son, the hotel, and more. Within a month she asked for more money...not for food, shelter, medicine...but to decorate her apartment. That was the last straw. Backing up I got about 300-400 emails honestly..and I am older. The real problem though lies not so much in the ladies as each Agency I have found out...and to marry a girl from China is expensive including the travel, the visa, and other amenities. The lady I met in Wuhan never did mention money but we did not get to the alter. Be careful !!! ask the lady for non-professional photos and another email..Go to QQ and speak to her their... Forget the Chinese government helping you....it is a joke...!! Since I went last year I met some wonderful ladies without having to go on any website but just by meeting them at Da Run FA (big department store ) and other places..I have dated some fine girls... Ask for photos of her famiy and try to even call her ....most don't speak English....that is a fact !! I wish you the best of luck....HONESTLY ..just be careful !!....last, even if your Chinese lady is for real...you have to remember that Chinese women are very beautiful and child-like....and I know several even as I write this waiting to see me again in a week. You really have to understand they are not at all like American women which is okay..but sometimes it can be a bumpy road with someone from such a diverse culture. BUT, I AM A POSITIVE PERSON...so follow your dreams with some realism in them. BEST OF LUCK !! [/quote]
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