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[quote=GUEST19231,409709]I see a whole bunch of reasons: western men are educated to be able to think independently, they are led to be creative, while the chinese society, however liberal it might seem on the surface, still leads the individual to be conform, efficient and to master the codified way of behaviour and thinking. This together with the different requirements of men and women are, I think, two of the main reasons for the discussed phenomenon. While the most women seek for a strong opinioned, inventive, witty partner, most men are pleased with a good looking, tender and faithful woman. Many western men have a difficulity with independent, assertive western women, who they feel, challenge their confidence in their own masculinity. Having a Chinese woman definitely makes one feel more masculine. The opposite can be said about having a chinese guy - but the female role has become something generally eschewed by both sexes in the west. Besides, chinese women are better gennetically disposed to be slim, while western men are better disposed to be tall. These are the ideals in both societies. The third explanation is econommical, but this is probably not the main reason, becuase there are still more japanese-woman-western-man couples then the opposite. But there definitely ARE also the opposite couples. In such couples, that I've known, either the man has been an exceptionally strong personality, for the Chinese standards, and seeking excitement rather than comfort, or the woman exceptionally meek for the western standards. As for me, I respect the female rights of equality, but still I prefer to live with a Chinese woman. The female role has changed in the west, but not the male. So it is definitely more satisfying for a western male to have a chinese female partner.[/quote]
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