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Thread: Chinese mens' views of love, friendship, etc. in marriage, etc.
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[quote=GUEST39253,400056]I am a 21 year old chinese man who lived in the west for 10 years and china(mainland) for 11 years. So I guess I qualify as well. I am going to get married with a Brazilian girl. Anyways to your questions. There are big differences between generations, class backgrounds and where you are from in China. Ofcourse upbringing, friends etc make a difference as with any culture. I will answer them personally. I am the best friend of my future wife and I love to be. I love to know about her day, to talk to her. I am currently learning more about her language, culture etc. I love to be with her. if they are your best friends, why wouldn't you share. Of course there are men's only topics for the guys, but generally, yes, for me i love to be enmeshed in my marriage. Chinese men likes masculinity and they don't like asking for help from their wives. You got to learn about the honor/shame background of our culture(its called face in China). Our whole culture is engrained in it. if he ask help he loses face unless it is necessary or something not very important. well I feel its a place for both, you got to be in love and love your partner, which requires romance. But family, is family, so it has its place to have children, to build a future together etc. Chinese men are usually sexually active with high libidos. We do want to please and be pleased. So if he is not going to get some in marriage, the chances are he is going to get some some where else. (not speaking about personally, just from what I observed) Depends whether he likes his marriage. Adultery is not culture related. It depends on the person, this question you cant generalise.[/quote]
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