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Thread: If you are a lady, which man will you choose to marry?
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[quote=YEMMIE,256366]Maybe I am wrong, but I think Alan was trying to say that sometimes we concntrate so much on initial chemistry that we don't really look at the things of real value in a relationship. All of us (I think), have met someone who was incredibly beautiful (on the outside), someone who made us want them so much that we were unable to see anyone else. And maybe that person was so beautiful that we could not see any of her (or his) faults, at least for a while. But, after a while, maybe we began to see that the person was not so kind, maybe not so considerate of others' feelings, maybe not so smart, maybe a little vain, or selfish, or arrogant. So eventually, maybe we began to wonder why we ever thought he/she was so beautiful, because now they were beginning to look ugly. Or, maybe the person was still beautiful on the outside and on the inside, but their interests in life were just too different so eventually, we found it impossible to imagine spending our lives with this person, impossible to remain in love with this person. So, now, finally, we were able to see others again, no longer blinded by our desire for this one person. Maybe now, we could see another person who, at first did not seem so beautiful, but who was kind, generous, considerate, gentle, and who seemed to share many of the same interests in life. Suddenly, we realized that we found this person very beautiful, inside and out, and we began to fall in love with this person. Alan, please correct me if I am wrong, but I think you were saying that the man in the original post could be the one who is overlooked initially because the woman is blinded by desire for another who is more attractive on the outside. I think you are advising the woman to try to look at both men inside and out and choose on that basis. I would say this is good advice for both men and women.[/quote]
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