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Thread: Is it possible to be friends with your GF/BF if you two break up?
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[quote=SHESGOTTOBE,259096]JimmyB, if you are serious in a relationship, you will try your best to make it work, depending on what you value and what you expect in the relationship. There shouldn't be any mind games. If the other party is cheating, you will try to talk to him/her rationally, hoping that you will resolve the issue before you even break up. Sometimes this is done over and over again hoping that it will work out. He/she is given that chance/chances. You do your best to make it work so that in the end you don’t have any regrets. However, most of the time, it will not stop because, to some cheating is some sort of an addiction while some others think it is perfectly alright, like it is their “right” to have other romantic relationships on the side. Many will even claim that it is “your fault” that they cheated. There is no justification for cheating. None, nada, zip, zilch. If one doesn’t love or appreciate the other person anymore, say so and move on but don’t cheat. Clearly, there are differences in values. You’ve tried to work it out and it didn’t work out, what else is there left to do? Of course, the above doesn’t apply if one doesn’t put too much importance on loyalty, honesty and commitment. To some, as long as the other is supporting them financially, they don’t care if there are “others”. It’s true that sometimes people change but it will take more than just preaching for people to change. It usually takes the loss of something precious and to be able to feel the pain for people to realize what they’ve done. And sometimes, it doesn’t register the first time. Life teaches us a lot of lessons and one of them is you never know what you got until it’s gone. [/quote]
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