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[quote=SHESGOTTOBE,259415]This is exactly my Chinese friend’s situation. A house in Beijing is a condition imposed by the girl’s parents if they are to give their permission. Well, what’s wrong with renting if you can’t afford to buy? It’s not just in China. It is the same everywhere. You have to buy a house on installment unless you are a millionaire. Age doesn’t have anything to do with it. This is assuming you are not living in a society where kids are married off when they are as young as 9. Marrying later is a trend all over the world. It is because there is less pressure to marry and being single is celebrated as well. Before, a 20-something person will be scorned if he/she is still single and there’s a lot of pressure to marry from all parts of the society. These days, people will not marry until they find that right one or they are ready for it. Nowadays, the society will respect the individual’s choice. When should you get married? When you have someone you want to spend the rest of your life with and that someone agrees to marry you. That is, if you already have a house and that cute girl you fancy will like the house you have and agree to marry you. LOL! I’m just kidding. It’s when you are ready to spend every day for the rest of your life with the one you love. You know that’s what you want and you are emotionally ready for it. That is just my opinion and I am not Chinese so I probably have a very different opinion. I hope more Chinese will answer this though. ^_^” Will I end my relationship with my BF if he can’t afford a house? LOL! What an odd question. Well, no. I’m already paying my monthly mortgage. If we marry, we can live on it. If he has his own house, we can decide if we want to sell or rent out the other one or buy a different house altogether. [/quote]
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