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Thread: When should we get married?
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[quote=SHESGOTTOBE,259658]Having a home is important to everyone I think, regardless of nationality. You have to live some where. If I don’t have a home, I’d be… um… living on the streets? -_- I know people who rented because they know they are going to move in a year or two. In that case, renting is better than owning a house. Another couple I know rented while they were saving for a downpayment. Well, I respect if they want a house for their daughter. I just hope my friend will go through it alive whether they end up together or not. It’s not like I have a say in it. It’s really none of my business. I guess it’s just for my cultural learning. I understand that the Chinese has a different way of seeing things and I totally respect that. It is not in my interest to change other people’s lives and ways of thinking. Where I live, most people do not care about other people’s personal decisions unless you are committing a crime or your actions are affecting other people. Here, personal decisions should be respected because it is assumed that adults know what they are getting into. If you start talking about other people’s business, they’ll start digging into your life too and trust me, you won’t like it. LOL! I do not know if my future husband will agree to live in my house if he could not afford to buy a house. It will depend on what he thinks and naturally, we will talk about it, weigh the options and then come to terms. Well, if it would save his self-esteem and dignity, he can start paying for the house. I wouldn’t mind. Promise! LOL! Seriously, I cannot predict how my future husband would think. That’s like putting the cart before the horse. ^_^” [/quote]
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