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Thread: what do you think of marrying a man/woman who is younger than you?
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[quote=CARLOS,421006]I think, Bostonian, that you understand that giving any reasonable advice or opinion concerning your situation is purely impossible. Like Dodger said age different over 10 years is quite common. Ours is almost 17 years. I have been married to my wife for 3,5 years and she still have difficulties to show any emotions in public. In public I mean when there is any person possibly seeing, including friends and family, even her sister. About love, I think it is not very rational to expect someone to love other after chatting few months and a short meeting. IMO it also is not rational to analyze someones feelings from a photo. I think, and I have come to this conclusion after knowing only few chinese women in Finland, that most of chinese other asian women wanting to be married to West wants to find a reliable husband and all of them wants to find a financially secured future hoping they can send some money to parents in China too. And there is nothing wrong with it. All chinese women I know are not afraid to do any work they are offered to. Time is something that should not be short when doing big decisions and marriage is one. So take your time and whatever you decide, be sure of it. The best way to destroy an affair is mistrust. About the register, it may referr to hukou system. My wife says that for marriage she needed hukou pen, 湖口笔. It is held by the head of family and he can decide whether he gives it to daughter or not. If not, she can not get married. My wife also says that in theory it could be had from police but they will not give it if father says no. So perhaps what your girlfriend says is true. Perhaps the next time you visit there you should have a thick red envelope to give to her father. That was no joke. Carlos [/quote]
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