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Thread: Why do overseas Chinese men seldom marry western women?
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[quote=GUESTGUEST12073,391020]Another point is feminism. Not that that's a bad thing in itself, but there is a huge difference between white women and oriental women; the former being assertive, manipulative and very vocal. White men have commented much on this being the reasoning why they "prefer Chinese women" now - they want a woman who fits the traditional female role more (thus making the above Canuck's point rather redundant). It's not a case of Chinese men not being able to handle them - moreso no man can handle them. You must have heard the stories - extremely drunk, white women picking fights, hurling abuse and spewing all over the floor and sleeping with random strangers. Who wants to date, let alone be married to someone like that? All the "nice" white women are already taken, and they certainly aren't the type to go out clubbing in that way. 2) White men. Who happens to be all too happy to perpetuate and exxagerate the above stereotypes? That's right, white men. When such an influential and vocal groups are so openly disrespectful towards us, is there any wonder white women do no dare approach us, or vice-versa? Which brings me to the other point. Myself and my Chinese male friends have always been "shielded" from white women, not by the women themselves, but by white men who group themselves with them, interrupt conversations, lie and spread rumours about us - anything in achieve the goal of stopping Chinese men talking to "their" women. In a nightclub environment, this has amounted to violence sometimes. Notice the difference between black men approaching white women and us approaching white women, the next time you go out - white men leave well alone with blacks (although look disapprovingly), but actively seek to stop encounters with us. This is in stark contrast with what Chinese men in China and other majority Chinese countries do; they don't seem to do anything when white men approach Chinese women. Thus the huge number of white men with local women in the Far East. 3) Communication. It's standard for the man to approach the woman. Armed with all the above factors, from negative stereotypes to aggressive women, what sane Chinese man would want to do the approaching? And all the decent white women expect the man to make the first move. So instead of > < we have < >. 4) Size. Another standard - in relationships the man is usually bigger and taller than the woman. It's ingrained in society, it's the norm, the media. Nearly all white men are taller than chinese women. A far smaller proportion of chinese men are taller than white women (their 5 inch heels do not help).[/quote]
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