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[quote=GUEST14252,316937]Hello, can anyone offer me some advice? I married a girl from China who resides in Macau, I met her in the UK where she was a "working girl"...we are the same age (40's) & obviously I did not like what she did for a living & eventually convinced her to return home to be with her 2 children. I have visited 3 times already in the last 10 months, on each occasion I have bought a ittle money & paid for meals out etc. However she has still not found a job in 10 months & says she needs money for her home/bills etc which I fully understand however she was aware before we married that I was not a wealthy man & also have 2 of my own children to support. All her friends appear to be working girls or ex-working girls & she continually talks about how much money they have & that she is again poor, when I have a little spare money I do send her some but our daily telephone conversations seem to revolve around the same thing, money. She seems to dislike me telling her I care or love her saying actions speak louder than words, I do understand but there is a limit to my earning potential. I desperately want her to be happy but it seems there is little I can do, she has even sold a ring which I bought her saying she needed the money for her daughters schooling. I am in a mess, what should I do, I don't want to finish our relationship but I can appreciate her predicament about money & I can see that she is thinking of "working" again...Any suggestions??[/quote]
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