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[quote=APAULT,352220]Be relaxed, see how things go, and don't be worried. Don't concern yourself yet with whether you 'love' him and he loves you. Keep doing things together, or chatting on-line. Give the 'relationship' time to evolve: it might mature or it might wither. You need time time to 'learrn the game' and you both need time to come to grips with some cultural differences. What you must realise is that in western countries relationships can develop quicker than you might like and he must understand the realities of China. Do not get upset if he tries to move faster than you think is correct, that is his culture, It is your choice to accept that or to slow it. It is his choice to accept or not. Also, he will not think you a bad or loose girl because you kissed (etc) that is quite normal in his background. He might have problems if you try to go back (eg, no kissing), he will think you are messing him around.[/quote]
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