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[quote=SETH,353491]GUEST30177 - I understand about "if you want something damn bad,you go for it and fight for it." But it can't apply here since for anything to work, HE must also want you "damn bad". Garykincaid's and Bobert's advice are really good. And here is another bit of insight into "how a western boy thinks" -- too often western boys want the very thing that is hardest to get! By this, I mean if you throw yourself at him and make yourself easily available, he may very well grow disinterested and not want you. So be mysterious and hard to get, be a bit distant. Don't answer his emails right away, make him wait and worry the same way you worry about him not responding. But please don't disrupt your life for something that might not be worth it (like interrupting your education and going to Africa to help him in business). Find out first if it the relationship is real, then be smart about the near and long term actions. You are worth more anywhere in this world with an education than if you don't have one. You could be of more help to anyone, including yourself, that way as opposed to being just manual help. Plus do it for yourself: get the education and self-assuredness that comes with it. Good luck... you sound like a very sweet girl. [/quote]
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