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[quote=GUEST73642,50645]im a Chinese girl, early 20s,study aboard since high school, love travelling and adventures.Outside it seems im more western than local Chinese girls.However,i was raised in traditional Chinese family until went aboard, inside,im so serious about relationship and have strong conception about family. and that is why until now i didn't receive any boy's invitation since most western boys looks playboy and flirting. recently,i met this boy from England during trip to africa. Im nice girl and have kinda sense of humor, but pity that when I face a boy i realize i have feeling for, I lose the ability to speak. i behaved normal when I talked to him at first.However, after somedays, I became soooo shy and nearly wordless when with him. on Dec 25,we were in a room and i cannot recall how we started to kiss and have intimacy. He dosen't look like playboy and that is one of the reasons i like him. But im feared that he will think im kinda girl who likes to play around. so i gave the initiative to let him email me first after i came back 'coz im not sure what he will think about me. Right now we have 2round of email only, and im waiting for his reply. Im in a situation that I dun know whether this is love i feel about him? but we actually didn't chat a lot. But i never have same strong feeling to any other boy b4. I miss him a lot and have the impulse to fly back to africa and give a hand to his bizness(he's about to open a youth hostel). that is also what i dreamed for a good relationship as women not only being a wife but also being a supportive for men's career. But all of this i never tell him. firstly, we haven't chat a lot and this topic seems so serious. Secondly,im afraid telling him too much about my feeling will give him pressure and leaves me eventually. Thirdly,im not sure whether this applied to western, i always think girls should not be too bold to say out their loves as one will think she does same thing to other boys. thx for reading my long boring story and forgive my poor English experssing. yes, summarize my qns: 1. how can i know i really fall in love with him since the time we spent together was short and and not much communication? but among all boys i have been with, i have strongest feeling about him. 2. if it is love,how should i express? what if he doesn't reply my email promptly? 3.i kinda regret have intimacy with him since he may think im not traditional girl, but if not the intimacy, we each other will be stranger ever after. How will he think about me? from the time we knew each other to Dec 25, its only 2 weeks.............sigh......... worried girl on 1st day of 2009 Happy New Year to all~~! [/quote]
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