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[quote=AMPILOT,358465]First, I am a Yank, travel alot on business. Been married for 15 years. Have kids. Never had a desire, interest for an affair. Not that everything is perfect with my spouse, but she is a good wife and I have no complaint with her. A few months ago my business took me down to St Lucia. After work, I am usually on my own. I don't play around with the local girls or go to the strip clubs. After work I usually just work on the computer, read a book. My thing is go in, get the job done, fly home. If my travel takes me there on a weekend, and there is a church, I will actually go to church. Not particularly religous, but you are always welcome in a strange land at church. Sometimes, I get a cab and do some sightseeing. This trip a few months ago was really different. After work I went to a restaurant to get something to eat. I am by myself, and the restaurant manager turns out to be a real attractive lady, I guess maybe 15 years my junior, from mainland China. Initially, we just have some very casual conversation, but then I am hit between the eyes with feelings I have not had since high school. This young lady is articulate, sharp, well educated, and a casual conversation turns deep and I find myself to my utter amazement looking deep into the eyes and soul of someone who at the very least was a kindred spirit, if not a soul-mate. A little time has gone by. I have gone back on business since, seen her a few more times, we have been exchanging (secretly) emails and phone calls. She knows I am married. You are not going to believe this, but I have not had sex with her yet. I am too confused about the situation to let that happen just yet. Right now she is a great friend, but could become more. I don't know where this is going to go. Everything about it is not right according to Hoyle. . I am married, too old for her, she lives near 1000 miles away. I am west, she is east. Yet, that spark is there. OK, here is what I want to ask from this forum. She is Chinese. You all are Chinese. Tell me why from a cultural point of view why she might be doing this, and tell me if I should let it go now. Thanks. [/quote]
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