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[quote=SHESGOTTOBE,361052]I am a woman and I have no idea what you are talking about. You started in the middle nyeheheheh… [mood15] No, seriously. Give us a specific example and the whole story. Here’s a possible explanation. Women think/see the bigger picture or as a whole. We think in ‘connect-the-dots’ way. Men think/see in compartments. At least this is what some studies say. Usually, a woman would talk about something that might be trivial to you, so many times you are hearing that she is talking but you are not really listening. Your lady asks, 'Are you listening?' You usually respond with ‘Uhuh… yea…’ Get the drift? One of the most common complain women say about men is that 'they don't listen'. When we say listen, meaning you pay attention and understand what on earth we are talking about. No offense but usually, we have to keep repeating ourselves because you didn't hear the first time. [mood15] And usually what she will say or talk about hours after that could be connected to what she talked about before. If you didn’t listen to what she said before, naturally you won’t see the connection. Or you listened but it could be that your thought processed the information as separate, that is compartmentalization. Here’s a suggestion. Pay attention to what she says all the time no matter how trivial and remember it and then see how it fits to the whole picture. One woman's POV. [mood3] [/quote]
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