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[quote=SHESGOTTOBE,361329]You have a dream and you have every right to pursue your dream. Just don’t do anything illegal which could get you into trouble. Personally, I do not agree with how you advertised yourself. It’s like you are ‘selling’ yourself. No. Selling is probably not the right word. Forgive me. English as second language, hehe... [mood15] You are so honest and I am just concerned that somebody would take advantage of you with the way you advertised yourself. Be careful. You mentioned that you have been studying in America for more than 10 months. I would guess you are already in America looking for an American man? Be very careful and selective. If you end up marrying a jerk and he knows you are after a green card, you’d be in a situation where you are open to abuse because he can use that as a leverage. Educate yourself about this process. This might be a shocker to you, but even Americans need a visa if they want to go to China as a tourist. Everyone, and I could be wrong but as far as I know, there are no exceptions. And they are not free, they cost $200 to $300 depending on how fast the service is. American citizens do not need visa to enter Japan and South Korea for short-term visits, and for non-US citizens, the visa is free. Neat, eh? As for marriage of convenience, somebody mentioned before that all marriages are in some form a marriage of convenience. People marry because they know they are getting something out of it whether it is security, sex, companionship, money, diamond, trophy, support or whatever. It’s all good but I hope you also include marrying someone you love because you will be spending with that person all your life(hopefully). Someone once said ‘Find your soul, then find your mate.’ Goodluck to you.[mood1] [/quote]
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