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Thread: For you westerners married to a Chinese for a long time
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[quote=AMPILOT,363452]After meeting a few westerners married to asians from other countries, I was wondering if any of you gentlemen that have been married to a Chinese for a long time could say a few words about your experiences? (I think long time is more than 7 years, but, a month in hell is a long time and 20 years in paradise nothing, so I will leave it subjective and your own interpretation) Not expecting anyone to answer all these questions, but things I am interested to hear is if you had to do it all over again, would you? Did you move to China or do you bring her home to your country? If you moved there, how is it working? Was she within a few years of your age or substantially younger/older? If you brought her home, how difficult was the adjustment for both of you? Do you find that sweet demure lady you knew in China became a die hard, demanding keep up with the Wongs materialist? Did she insist on having complete control over your daily life, finances, etc? Was there alot of pressure to begin providing financial support to family members in China or to start helping them emigrate? Or perhaps there was pressure to move back to China? Or did the dream become a reality, did you find life's partner, alot of joy and discovery in each other that keeps on going through the years? I am not saying I am looking for a Chinese spouse, but I have been around the block long enough to know the people one should talk to are the people who have been married a "long time". Your comments and candor are appreciated.[/quote]
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