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Thread: Asian women marry western men for fatherly love?
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[quote=GUEST39108,387465]I am a 55 year old Caucasian American male (I never thought I would say this) who although posessing a master's degree is NOT AT ALL RICH OR POWERFUL and is at the 2 month mark in a relationship with a 47 year old widowed, Chinese woman who is already living in America. She understands much more English than she is able to articulate. We met online through Asia Friend Finder, and after we both were laughing so hard at the goofiness of the electronic translations in the back and forth emails, she made a decision early on that I am a good man and intitated an in person meeting at a public place. As a result of her negative experiences with Chinese men, my friend distinctly prefers American men for personality and for attractiveness not for a rich father figure to take care of her.. I explored Asia Friend Finder simply because I find Asian women attractive and rather fascinating. I infact would have run the other way if I met someone who embodied the Asian woman stereotype. As a man who has dated and married too many bright articulate American women, I have to tell all of you how eye-opening, refreshing and gratifying it is to be with a bright, beautiful woman, who brings to the relationship pure positiveness and a basic assumption that I will treat her well and honorably. It is her earnestness that is so attractive and appealing. So different than my experienced, articulate bright American girlfriends and lovers who are pre-emptively looking for how this relationship needs to be scrutinized early for any possible indications for potential deception or betrayal . by the way my last (American) wife who went to the gym to elevate her self esteem perception ended up sleeping with her personal trainer for validation of her attractiveness. I just cannot see a Chinese woman inclined to participate in something like that neuroses. I am writing too much, I am just trying to bring into the discussion for all participating to not fall into the trap of making stereotypical assumptions about either one of the partners in these special matches. I have met 7 other chinese woman - american man couples and it that short time all I see is happiness, and sincere contentment for both partners.[/quote]
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