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Thread: Why do western women seldom marry Chinese men?
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[quote=ETHANINCHINA,403939]I know many foreign girls who have tried dating Chinese men but they often have the same problems. Chinese men are as handsome as all types of men, some good looking some not, that's universal and the hairy thing is good and bad because some girls don't like so much hair. The problems I hear the most are 1) Serious: Chinese men always want serious relationships too fast, more foreign girls are more relaxed, they are happy to be with only one man but they don't want you to smoother them, meaning you have your life and they still have theirs. 2) Clingy: Chinese men are too clingy meaning they always want to know where you are, what you're doing and become very jealous at times. The fastest way to turn off a foreign girl is to be overly jealous and pushy. 3)Gentlemanly: I know many Chinese say that China is very equal now for men and women but I assure you it's not nearly equal, wait another 10-15 years and you'll have the equality of hte West and you will miss the days of thepast. Foreign girls demand equality, this means they have every bit as much say in the running of the house and money as you. They are equal to you in all aspects. Most Chinese guys are not so ok with this. 4) Stalking: Chinese culture seems to view obsessive behaviour towards girls as a good thing. I have one friend, she had a Chinese man send her 4-5 messages everyday for two weeks straight and she had not even met him yet, she just agreed to go on a date later. I know not all guys are this way but quite a few are and they ruin it for the rest of the more relaxed Chinese guys. So Chinese guys, if you want to date a foreign girl, relax. Take it easy. Don't be jealous. Let her have her own life. Treat her as an equal but still be a gentleman (these last two actually contradict each other as, as an equal she should equally pay, but that doesn't happen...) and the best way to date a foreign girl, become friends with her male friends, that way she can see you are a intersting guy and are accepted by the other foreigners before hand. (this actually goes for dating any girl. make friends with her friends and chances are she'll agree to date)[/quote]
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