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Thread: Help....American man just engaged to Chinese woman here in USA on work visa
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[quote=GUEST41582,416201]Thanks everybody I'm feeling better about our relationship..........we had long talks and time together, let me tell you.. We talked everything about sex for her,, yes I am only her second man,,,,we did have sex several times christmas and she does like it. She was open relaxed and at home for the first time.. Not shy and reserved.....I felt a connection finally..... We called her parents and she translated ...first I talk to mother then to father,,,I ask to marry daughter and promise to take good care of her......they say it's ok very good they very happy........ The work thing will be a challenge,,,,,I think she sends money home, and also pays for USA lawyers, so she needs money....although I am overspending and being broke to keep taking her to eat and entertainment all the time..... Yes when we are alone witch is not very often she is loving and sexual now. She said she wanted to buy me gift the other day but she did not.. We had long talk about her job touching men and whAt they say and try to do.... I told her rules I have if she wants to keep me and her job Told her never give customer your phone number. Told her never go to eat or somewhere with customer. Told her never touch customer in sex area. Told her if she listens all will be ok. She say to me yesterday If I come to see her has to be before work because coworker no want me there during the day....she gets mad at my girlfriend if I do. My girlfriend has not paid for anything when were together....only me I even just gave her a new laptop computer the other day....and I helped pay for lawyer 300.00usd I wish she would have bought or made something for me as a gift so I could treasure it even something very small. Questions...... What is a fair amount of time or the minimum amount of time she should give me as her husband? She still holds boss word or decision before mine.....why she listen to boss and not me? Notes. I am relieved she likes sex I thought she would have been too scared, but after our long talks and me explaining to her what happens and how she was very relaxed. She definitely was not having sex for last 3 years.....you could tell. Well things are better.......not perfect but definitely better......I no longer think she just wants a green card. I no longer think she is looking for other boyfriends. I no longer think she is playing me. I believe her with my heat now..... Next step to wait for boss to come back from china.....then she says she will move in together , Then wait for her divorce to go through,,,,and get married to me.... Then I will ask her to take at least 1day a week off for us to spend together ...... I would like to see her work less Now she work 7 days at 12hr days...........and only is paid by customer not by hour.... I want sunday and Monday off cus almost no customer those days [/quote]
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