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Thread: SHE WANTS TO COME TO ENGLAND AND TAKE ME TO CHINA TO MARRY HER
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[quote=GUEST19762,422936]Dear all who care to respond to these boards, Thank you for advice on my vice, visa, etc! Any (polite) comments are always welcome. When I was 18 I met a girl who showed a lot of interest in me. I put myself down, thinking I was not good enough for her. I asked myself why a pretty girl with the loveliest personality that one could ever wish to meet wish to be with me. No one knows what the outcome would have been had I pursued, and I did live to regret. My brother has been married for 28 years, has now had his English wife leave him for another man, whom has nothing at all to offer except as a drinking companion. He has never ever done anything untoward in his marriage, or life come to that, and does not deserve this at all. So, do we sit and think negative about what will happen if we hook up with someone, how long will it last, what if…. etc. I have spent a lot of time on the Internet studying the opinions and beliefs of Chinese culture and women. The more time one spends on this; contradiction is the order of the day. A Chinese girl living in the UK that I know very well and is a true friend is probably the complete opposite of what you can read and thus believe. I am not going into detail about her, but I can assure you that her personality is such that you would definitely throw out the red rulebook! I came here as I was hoping to hear from someone who might have encountered similar to myself. That is, where the Chinese female actually comes to England, or another Western country, instead of the norm. Of course, until we actually meet up and spend time together, I would not know what this Lan (for personal reasons, this is not her actual name) is truly like or about. She has now offered to stay for 30 days. Apparently, her father is man of his own means, and can sort out her visa. So we are not talking about a couple packets of cigarettes slipped into someone’s sweaty palms! It might be that I am difficult to be with. After all, have had three long-term girlfriends, but never married, and am all on my lonesome :-< The only person I was engaged to and would have married left me for someone else. I felt at the time I would be scarred for life, and it did take a very long time indeed to recover from. Getting to the stage (and age!) where one thinks what’s happened with my life? After all, I do have time on my hands to spend hours on the Internet. How sad is that! And to be honest, I do not like to conform. So I have decided to go against the grain and pursue this current scenario. ....Continued on next page (I am over character count limit!).... [/quote]
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