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Thread: Are Chinese girls easy to get?
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[quote=GUEST17173,492629] Candid words. Sad truth, good to know. I'd like to add more from the other side, a local Chinese girl's point of view. Easy girls are easy, sure, but there are also a lot not easy ones look like that way, I think that is why---- First, girls who look "easy" but actually not are just because of unnecessary kindness and lack of awareness. Share stories among friends can alert girls. But sadly, many cultivated Chinese families and friends usually avoid gossiping about others and themselves, it is regarded as mean and impolite. When sharing things, they tend to interpret others' bad behaviors as with good intention or they have to with their difficulties, they just want to forgive and teach their children to be considerate and nice and easy-going. I should thank Guest14514 for his frankness. It helps. Second, in Chinese culture, there is no such thing like "original sin" from Bible. In "Three-Character Bible", a textbook every Chinese has to remember in old time, the first sentence is "humans are born in good nature." I grow up in such a family, and I felt confused sometimes when there is no way to interpret a bad behavior with any goodness. I was blind and I got hurts, but today I think it is all right to think this way. Just be aware that some males are still lack of intelligence to enjoy things better than the shallow lust. Last, the social difference adds difficulties for girls to refuse some bad behavior. It is not straight forward to tell local players, let alone foreign players. Goodbye kiss is said nothing more than a normal social convention. If you care too much, you are too conservative or even weird. But some guys just take advantage of that, it is sick. Why should I touch those I don't like? Shaking hands at the most. Girls, our tradition is a very good excuse to refuse guys you don't like. We learn fast, we are no more easy. I was blind and I don't mind being misunderstood as an "easy girl" in the past. It is not the girl described by this word but the dirty man. During one's lifetime, who can avoid meeting one or two jerks? I should thank them for teaching me vivid lessons that my family and friends failed to. I totally agree that girls should be responsible for themselves. But I still feel sorry and even look down upon those taking advantages of those innocent girls. Taking advantages from those who trust you has nothing to feel proud----showing-off your stupidity and bad taste and loosing your credits and chances for good girls. [/quote]
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