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Thread: Once you marry a Chinese woman, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family.
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[quote=GUESTROY MCCLANAHAN,506647]I'm an American man married to a beautiful Chinese woman. And, yes the above comment is true, for the most part, but compared to marrying an American woman all of that is trivial. I'm not talking about ALL American women... just in general. I realize there are some exceptions. One of the reasons why marrying a Chinese woman is so favorable is because they don't think like American or western women in general. In other words they don't compete with their man or berate him in public or think they can do what he does better. The Chinese woman is genuinely concerned about her man's health and happiness. She will go out of her way to extremes to make sure he is well taken care of. How refreshing is that? Another problem with an American man marrying an American woman is that both of them have been conditioned by American values which are generally determined by the media (TV, magazines, internet...). For example, once American couples have been together for a certain amount of time they're conditioned by the American mainstream media to buy, buy, buy... and then borrow lots of money to buy more until they're so broke and in debt they can't even afford a cup of coffee. Another problem is that the American mainstream media conditions them to just shut-up and settle in their day-to-day rut of dishes-in-the-sink, big beer bellies and pay-the-bills routine. Everything in the desire department, according to much of the media, dies an ugly death... especially after kids. Plus with the destructive attitudes that most American women have concerning men (which is another by-product of the American culture) things quickly go from bad to worse. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a perfect man by any means... on the contrary. But I like to treat my partner with love, respect and generosity. I felt I deserved much better than what I was being served by an American woman. I knew there was so much more out there than THAT![mood16] And I truly found it with a Chinese woman. She was born and raised in China with no American media influence at all! China's like a different planet to me... so facinating... which makes her facinating. We've been together for almost 5 years but most of the time it feels like only five days because she doesn't carry any of the destructive American baggage I'm so used to... so wonderful![mood3] So if you're an American man contemplating why it's this way with American women... don't... just go marry an unscathed, uninfluenced-by-American-media Chinese woman. Yes... there are challenges... but YOU'LL BE SOOO MUCH HAPPIER![/quote]
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