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Thread: How to deal with criticism of Father in Law and Wife's Uncle?
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[quote=GUEST18236,516917]its very normal to see those kind of behaviors from the in laws , however what matter most is you and your wife understand each other,and both of you have a proper goal for the future, people around including your father in law and relatives of your spouse always do the criticism, and urge the foreign spouse of their children specially if your a man , you need to provide a house, car , etc... bla bla As i married also to the chinese and thanks god i don't understand what my father in law is saying about lol, as he speaks his own dialect,whatever he says, how long his speech is me and my spouse we just laugh and ignore him. But at the end of the day,as i don't speak their own dialect and he can't speak mandarin then i let my spouse to let him understand, i guess it is also depend to your spouse to talk with her own father and let them understand it in accordance,even they will not understand it but at least both of you tried to explain and your wife talk to them patiently if still they don't want to listen then be it . Important thing is you both understand each other, both work hard to make your life better. Try to learn sometimes to ignore and just smile, but take that within yourself as a challenge and work hard, day by day, step by step fulfill that.Anyways goodluck[/quote]
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