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If you are a lady, which man will you choose to marry?
Nov 23, 2007 05:36
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Yemmie, you read me correct, this is exactly what I meant.
I have been in the same postition myself where I was in love with a lady who had no feelings for me, I realised and moved on.
Now I have a lady who loves me as I am.
Alan.
Nov 23, 2007 05:41
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it's something simple, strong enough....and holding on till the end of...
Nov 23, 2007 10:27
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I'd still like to hear more opinions from the ladies. The total knowledge of men about women would not fill a thimble. :-)
Nov 23, 2007 19:38
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Lizxli Quote,
It seems that JCL has made this issue very complex, confusing...
Personally I would like to have it a simpler way. As feeling sometimes is weid,I will for sure love the one I choose and avoid hurting anyone.
Simple, it makes our life happier. I think so!)

Alan Quote in reply #11
(I have been in the same position myself where I was in love with a lady who had no feelings for me, I realized and moved on.)

Lizxli,

You always seem so gentle and kind on your words, that without any interest whatsoever, I undergo a rush of concern; you are a person that by no means I want to confuse.
However, I like to think that I just open your eyes to your self.

Going part by part, I like to quote you,
(I agree with Alan.
If so, I will try to love that guy who loves me.)

You said, I AGREE WITH ALAN.
However, Alan just said, I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO PICK HIM AND ENJOY THE LOVE HE HAS FOR YOU.
Alan was talking about the man that she DO NOT love; now Alan syntax is very simple, comprehensible in nature, with very little room misinterpretations, and second-guessing.
What strike’s the most about Alan’s words is the one word ENJOY, (enjoy the love he has to offer); think about it very calmly, I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO PICK HIM AND ENJOY THE LOVE HE HAS FOR YOU. This is in reference to the man that she does not love.
I have been in a relationship where there is everything except love, God Knows it. I TRAY to love her very hard as you say you will do. It just does not work!
Now, it you analyze the meaning of the word ENJOY,”please see dictionary” I think it can be the most painful experience, to tray to ENJOY the love from a person that you do not love.

Let us keep focus, this thread it is not about a man but a woman asking the question.
This in turn got me guessing. Is this, Alan’s advice directed to her because she is a woman?
Can it be possible that the same advice will not be given to a male questioner?
We will never know; all I know is that the advice was, to go for the man that loves her with out regard for her feelings.
I most said that the most transparent interpretation of love is, that, exactly that, the delicate soft feeling of tenderness and carry me away desire, I do not care where just do take me away and I will follow, because I love you.

Anything else is just that, anything else.

jcl
Nov 23, 2007 19:44
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Travellermike,

From where

Just from the other side of the pond.
Nov 25, 2007 01:46
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Whatever the case you would not be very happy. If so choose neither and behave as your feeling tells you. Perhaps you need time to decide.
Nov 25, 2007 21:15
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I would marry the one who will agree to marry me LOL! Naturally, there won't be any marriage if the one I love doesn't want to marry me. <sob!>
Nov 25, 2007 22:12
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Quote: I'd still like to hear more opinions from the ladies. The total knowledge of men about women would not fill a thimble. :-)

You are right, Griz. We were not women and we do not know what they really think about. I also want to see more ladies' posts here. BTW, if men want to join in, just answer this question: will you choose the one you love or the one who loves you?
Nov 25, 2007 22:15
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I forget to give my answer first (I am a man): I will choose the one I love. If she doesn't love me, I will give up and wish that she could find her happiness.
Nov 26, 2007 11:41
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Difficult, difficult. I propably would walk to local pub and pick someone whom I don´t love and who doesn´t love me. No high expectations.
Seriously, I couldn´t live with someone I don´t love, so maybe I would choose the one I love and hope she some day loves me.

Carlos

(oh, I am not a woman, too)
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