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[quote=APAULT,265547]For once I see a significant cultural difference between China and the west.  Generally we do not go out looking for a mate.  Instead we go out with friends, we have bfs and gfs.  We go to parties together, to the cinema, the beach or just hang out.  Sometimes the initial attraction fades and we go our separate ways.  Often there are tears, but we have enjoyed ourselves and one of us at least realised that the relationship didnt offer what we wanted in the long term, maybe 60 years these days.  Somewhere along the way we meet someone and the 'chemistry is right' and we stick, usually by getting in married.

In China young people seem to expect to  find their 'Mr or Miss Right' in some magical way, without trial and error.  Look at all the fun they are missing!.  Hey Jimmy...Go Out! Don't be like old farts like me with nothing better to do who sit here pontificating in TCG, get out thrrr and chase the chicks! You are good looking and they will be queing up!  I don't mean it too personally Jimmy, because it applies to so many.  We are only young once, so enjoy it.  Get a MIXED group together, hire a KTV room and do what young people are supposed to do!  Or get a group together and set off to a country spot for a picnic.  Magic!

As for love and lust - I know what lust is :) :)  But love, much harder for me ... Love is something u give.[/quote]

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