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[quote=IBAUSSIE,278459]Just my observation over the last 30 odd years.
You can find someone in a bar,a club,anywhere,talk with them face to face,go out to dinner whatever and still find out later, after taking the marriage step or living together,whatever that the person you thought was the one for you,turned out to be someone  completely different,
You dont need the internet to lie,am I right.
The internet i see as another method to meet people of the opposite sex or the same depending on your persuation.People tend to be more relaxed dealing remotely with members of the opposite sex,ie on the phone or over the internet. Sure you can lie and paint a totally untrue picture of yourself.Who are you kidding,surely only yourself right. If this is the sort of person you are this is the sort of person you will attract,
The internet is just another option available to be used to meet people .Many people can not operate on all cylinders when face to face with a real live flesh and blood human being,they can clam up,develop nervous twitches,become speechless etc etc.
The internet because it gives a sense of autonomy,a certain detachment,it can make communication easier.
The lies people tell,sometimes you can see straight away. This can be the case in face to face real life as well, 
Sometimes it takes time, over months of emails and comunication,texts before mistakes start to appear in the story or picture you have of the other person.
Hello,just like the real world again huh.
You can even go through months of chat,emails etc and when you meet the person,face to face,after traveling across town or across the world ,they are not really your cup of tea .You find that after being with that person on a daily basis,together in day to day or nightly situations there is something not quite right,some thing they do that they never mentioned or you for that matter that makes a relationship impossible.
Hello again,just like real life.
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