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Thread: Do you have to sleep separately? YES!
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[quote=DAVID_LIAO,496727]I had better tell you ABC about this. 1. Traditionally, unmarried girl who have sexual relationship with someone will be treated as slut in China, even with fiancés herself. For man, people think you are light-minded too. Comparably, woman will be suffered far more for unmarried sexy, because man has privilege of multiple-wives if he is wealthy, high social status in the past time. Since some people keep few old-ideas in their mind, and others don’t take those things seriously. So, if your G-friend’s or you B-friend’s patients are open-minded, you needn’t to worry about sleeping together, and you should take it seriously if her/his parents are traditional persons. 2. In China, when the young are going to marry, their parents have to prepare a lot stuff for them, such as house, car, especially the boy’s parents. They believe they are obligated to do that. Many girls will not marry poor guy whose family can’t do that (personally, I treat it as a kind of deal). But things will come to different if they young couple have had sexy openly, or the girl is pregnant. The girl and her family will lose their reputation if she marries someone else and the girl may have no more choice but to marry the boy who made her pregnant. In this case, the boy’s parents will be happy because they don’t need to buy so many things to make the girls’ parents happy. And the girl has to know, if you have had sex with your partner before marrying, his parents may treat you “light”. 3. Nowadays, most of people can accept unmarried sexy, especially those with good education. For Chinese, the parents always hope their adult children get marry as soon as possible to have babies. So, sleeping together will be ok in those families. And for an approval from his/her parents, maybe you should pay attention to many things. As you known, good impression is important. [/quote]
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