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[quote=GUEST73679,362825]I have a strong attraction to a Chinese man. He has been courting me for a few months now despite that we currently live in different states. He is very traditional and has expressed that he would like to date me but is fearful of intercultural differences and his family's reaction (they are still in China). I have never thought of dating an asian man before and have been trying to do research as to cultural differences and beliefs.  I have been raised to be very independent and self-sufficient, I know that there would be a very strong need for communication and understanding in order to consider dating. However, we have not gotten to the point of discussing our pasts or in my case sexuality. I know that traditional Chinese do not look well upon homosexuality but I was wondering if that is the same for bisexuality. In the last 5 years I have dated mostly women and am wondering what kind of issues to expect from this. Is there shame associated with that?  I obviously would not date anyone who is not comfortable with my sexuality but am wondering how that could affect the family dynamic. I know that he is still very close with his family and needs their approval. I have reservations about what kind of expectations there are on my end. While I love to do traditional female things I am also very career oriented. I know that it will have to be discussed between us but I was wondering if anyone had an idea of what I should expect as a reaction. 
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