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[quote=GUESTCAMERON,364035]You got it all wrong. It's not that we can't dress (not when I get hit on at a swimming pool wearing nothing) and you don't speak for every western woman. I get along with them romanticly all the time.

I won't lie, the 1st generation chinese males who study abroad are ugly to me, it might have something to do with it. I heard how because of communism and having  to prep to fight in the military,(they need fighters and men, and women to behave like men) they discuraged sex and as a result no education and sex hardly happened so when they married there wasn't a lot of sexual selection.

This was a CBC documentary about a sexual revolution going on in China right now(because they didn't know about sex back then, thought hugging was sex) and how they need sex ed cuz they don't use condoms. That can mess up attractive males from being born, females too (honesty they are ugly compared to what i'm used to)

Look if you look decent, you need to know how to date, you need to know how to be a man, something that communist leaders might have messed up. Its not the money, you can chase that shit all you want till you are 50. Its not that much looks or dress either, just be clean. Its how you make women feel. If you scare her, she will be afraid. That is your power, feelings. If she likes you its because of a feeling. What makes her feel that way, you have to find out yourself. How does money make you feel guys, not that great.

I needed to learn all that stuff that I don't see a lot of foreigners understanding.

Places like Hong Kong where the people are still free from Communism might not have these problems, the southern chinese men are more attractive... I don't know why. (maybe the unsensored cough cough media shows the attractive ones and thats all I see in hong kong.)

I really don't know what goes on in China cuz my family moved out 100 years ago to some other place that had a war so here I am in Canada.

I know there are a few issues like chinese males(china) sometimes think they are superior to everything so that affects first generation chinese male's choice of women. Well now there are less females so some will never marry because you chose messed up and those women don't even want to get married. Point is don't get all superior cuz feminist and sex revol will screw you.

Stereotypes, I have to live through discrimination growing up( I was a loud kid and I noticed my non loud chinese friend wasn't getting picked on) and stuff but open minded women are plentiful and the non open minded ones can eventually see who you are. I think at one point in my life a black female wrote to me about being sorry for meanness(I think it was racism) and mentioned something about not knowing who i'd become(what she sees).

Last thing I want to get at is, there are sexy asian guys who can date whoever they want but they are never in western media portrayed as sexy except a little here. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTO0a3C0WYM[/quote]

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