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[quote=GUEST15520,482781]Inter  racial marriage, especially were there is such a vast language and culture difference is always going to be challenging. Your wife should be commended, not criticised for making such efforts to learn your language. Are you making any efforts to learn hers? It takes a lot of effort from two people to make a marriage work.

Many westerners assume that an Asian wife will be compliant and submissive. Whilst this may be the case in some Asian cultures, in my experience Chinese women are not. They may seem considerate to their husbands in public, but behind closed doors things are usually very different.

Your wife has taken an enormous leap of faith in you to move to a strange quite alien country. She needs your support, understanding love and especially a feeling of security. Living in China myself I know how isolating it can be when you cannot communicate, read signs, menus or even know what half of the things I see in the supermarket even are.

Learning a foreign language especially when no longer in the first flush of youth is very difficult. Perhaps she considers this task to be the equivalent of working. Do you help with the housework and cooking? Do you give her the love and support she needs?

When a Chinese woman feels wanted and loved you will not find a better wife. Your efforts to make her feel happy and secure with  be rewarded ten fold..... in and out of the bedroom.

If she feels unloved, uncared for and insecure then don't be surprised if she she considers love making to be just another household chore to be endured.[/quote]

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