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Thread: if you fall in love with a muslim when you are not,what will you do?

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[quote=AZIZAH,365520]My sister from Indonesia, I share the same thought with you.  Before I accepted Islam and then later married to my present husband, I felt the same as you.  I always feel I would be short-changed by Islamic laws especially about marriage.  He can marry four wives and won't care for me anymore, and that's a great gamble I have to make.   Then a thought striked me that if I marry someone else, could I assure that he won't have girlfriends or mistresses?  I have seen also many of my friends also got divorced and never saw their children and they were not Muslims.

Marriage is based on trust, care and shared responsibility.  Thus, marrying him is really a blessing, he guides me to understand more about my misundertanding of Islam.  My husband shows me that Islam allows marrying to four wives if a husband able to be just, and if he thinks he can't be fair, the Quran says only marry one.  There are a lot of personal interpretations about Islam which I always keep a distance.  I find solace in communicating with Allah during my night prayers.  My personal opinion is, if you want to embrace Islam because you love someone, please do rethink but if you think you embrace Islam because of marrying him so that he can teach and guide you how to submit yourself before the Almighty, then by all means, do so.

Life is so beautiful when both of us share and learn how to submit ouselves to God, thanking Him for things He has given to us.[/quote]

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