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[quote=GUEST53236,334562]I have been reading through these posts with a growing sense of concern. You all do realize that these girls you are talking about are extremely intelligent and complex human beings. If any of you are thinking Chinese girls are "China dolls" and will be subservient... think again! Chinese girls and their culture is extremely complex. In public they will be very complient but expect them to also be very willful when it comes to home life. I have been living in China for a year and a half. I have dated a few Chinese girls and have a Chinese girl as a platonic room mate. I love to death my current girl friend and we are talking marrage and I take it very serious as does she. The cultural differances are sometimes extremely difficult to deal with. Don't get me wrong! I feel lucky beyond reason to have found such a wonderful person. Everyday with her is better then the last but it still requires a great deal of understanding. I speak passable Chinese and have an Asian studies degree and she speaks even better English... but we often find even when we are saying the same words we don't mean the same thing. 
I think if you plan to take a girl away from here family and culture you better know who she is... it takes more then a few visits and some paperwork. 
... above all else, love respect and communication
 Good luck[/quote]

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