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[quote=JCNILE123,256476]Lizxli Quote,
It seems that JCL has made this issue very complex, confusing...
Personally I would like to have it a simpler way. As feeling sometimes is weid,I will for sure love the one I choose and avoid hurting anyone.
Simple, it makes our life happier. I think so!)

Alan Quote in reply #11
(I have been in the same position myself where I was in love with a lady who had no feelings for me, I realized and moved on.)

Lizxli,

You always seem so gentle and kind on your words, that without any interest whatsoever, I undergo a rush of concern; you are a person that by no means I want to confuse.
However, I like to think that I just open your eyes to your self.

Going part by part, I like to quote you,
(I agree with Alan.
If so, I will try to love that guy who loves me.)

You said, I AGREE WITH ALAN.
However, Alan just said, I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO PICK HIM AND ENJOY THE LOVE HE HAS FOR YOU.
Alan was talking about the man that she DO NOT love; now Alan syntax is very simple, comprehensible in nature, with very little room misinterpretations, and second-guessing.
What strike’s the most about Alan’s words is the one word ENJOY, (enjoy the love he has to offer); think about it very calmly, I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO PICK HIM AND ENJOY THE LOVE HE HAS FOR YOU. This is in reference to the man that she does not love.
I have been in a relationship where there is everything except love, God Knows it. I TRAY to love her very hard as you say you will do. It just does not work!
Now, it you analyze the meaning of the word ENJOY,”please see dictionary” I think it can be the most painful experience, to tray to ENJOY the love from a person that you do not love.

Let us keep focus, this thread it is not about a man but a woman asking the question.
This in turn got me guessing. Is this, Alan’s advice directed to her because she is a woman? 
Can it be possible that the same advice will not be given to a male questioner?
We will never know; all I know is that the advice was, to go for the man that loves her with out regard for her feelings.
I most said that the most transparent interpretation of love is, that, exactly that, the delicate soft feeling of tenderness and carry me away desire, I do not care where just do take me away and I will follow, because I love you.

Anything else is just that, anything else.

jcl
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