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[quote=CHERRY07,403056]“It has been proven that after women started to work, kids have had worse lifes.”
It might be true. But you should know that some families have no other choices, for example, off-farm workers in China. In order to support their families, both husband and wife go to big cities to work for money. Most of them leave their children at home, taken cared by their grand-parents. Some of the kids feel lonely, even have psychological problems.

This is reality. Their parents go outside to make money for a living. Of course, their mothers can stay at home. But only his husband’s income can’t support the whole family.

The ordinary people’s lives are not as miserable as those off-farm workers’. But the wives also need to work too. They have kids to feed, parents to support and house loans to pay. In the meantime, the living costs are hiking. How could they stay at home? Like the off-farm workers, their kids are taken care of by their parents too.

We may blame that their husbands are incapable. As a man, you have to burden the responsibility to support your family. If you fail to support your family, you are a loser. Men work outside to support the family and women stay at home to take care of their families. This is an old Chinese tradition. But this has changed in today’s society. For most ordinary families, it is not realistic because their husbands are not millionaires or billionaires. They are just ordinary men but not losers. At least, they are trying their best to make money and support their families.

See, that’s why a lot of Chinese girls are dreaming of marrying a millionaire or billionaire. If their dream comes true, they will never worry about their livings any more.

Such girls are just seeking shortcuts. Don’t know how many of them will succeed. I am not that type of girl. I understand that there are no free meals. If you want to get something, you should make sacrifice first. More importantly, I understand how hard it is for a man to support a whole family. Thus, I’d like to share the burden with my husband in the future. Even we become successful one day, I won’t just stay at home because I want independence.

Clarification: I didn’t say that all home mothers are parasites. Parasites refer to those women who live in unearned life. They don’t want to make any efforts but want to have a very decent life. The easiest way for them is to find a sugar daddy.

By the way, you seem to live a very decent life. You needn’t worry too much about anything like the off-farm workers or ordinary families in China, right? Then your wife needn’t work outside.[/quote]

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