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[quote=DINOVOTPA,422426]Hi,

I just had my first date with a Chinese woman here in the U.S. She came here in 2001 and speaks great English. I met her on a dating site and we talked thru email for a few weeks.

I had initially expressed interest in meeting but she said she wasn't comfortable at the time and I said Ok I am comfortable talking thru email (I may have jumped the gun and asked to meet too early).

Anyway - 
Our first date was a lunch date at 12 noon and it ended up lasting until 4pm in the afternoon(Is that a good sign?) I think it is.

We walked and talked most of the time and it was fantastic.
After I walked her to her car to say goodbye she said here let me give you my phone number (Again a good sign?) I had previously given mine to her just in case she was running late for our date she could call me. Of course she didn't give me hers until after the date.

I believe she is interested and she did send a couple subtle complements my way which I picked up on right away.
I gave her a hug after the date and told her I had a really good time talking and walking with her.

The next day she emailed me Good morning and that she had also enjoyed meeting me and thanked me for a wonderful afternoon. I'm still emailing her, of course.

My questions is this...When should I call her on the phone? How long should I wait..I don't want to jump the gun again and seem too aggressive but I want her to know I am definitely interested.

I believe with some of the things I've indicated above that she is interested too ???
Can anyone help me here?  I have been reading and researching so I don't screw this up.

I think she is so sweet and I would like it to go further, I had such a wonderful afternoon with her.

Thanks.
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