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[quote=KLOH,447270]

Thank you very much.

Well about the details, lol, I would like to tell some recent news. That my boyfriend is coming in 9 days!!! I'm so excited.

Well, as I told in my previous posts, we first met in person in March (2011), so it means we haven't met each other for more than 7 months now.

In those 7 months, many things happened, happy, sad... the happiest thing ever happened is He's got his job! A nurse in the ICU, which he had been dreaming of. I am very proud of him, because I know it is not easy, I saw how hard he worked. (He lost his parents when he was little. He had been on his own. He has to do everything himself. He had complained that, but I always told him "You are a great man, you can do it.") I really believed he can achieve his goal.

Anyway, he's achieved his first goal of his life.  I am just simply proud of him.

The other exciting news I just mentioned is he is coming to China for the second time in 9 days. In fact, we planned to meet for the second time in March 2012. But something happened and he decided to come earlier.

We had some hard time with each other back in July/August. We had a lot of arguments. The main reason of the arguments is "misunderstandings", or I would say "we were both selfish at times".

For example, when I missed him very much, I would not care if he was busy or something. I would say things like "I don't care if you are busy or you need to sleep. I only care that I need to talk with you. You have to stay." (We have 12 hour time difference. It means, every day we chat in his night time,my morning time, and yes, I chat when I'm at work [mood7], but don't worry, I take care of my work too.)

Anyway, when I said that, he was really frustrated. He told me "My assignments are so important to my career, and you already knew how important a career is to a man in the US. And now you are asking me to give up my career just because you want me to talk with you for a few min to show that I care about you??"

Well...I don't know what you guys may think about our argument? It seems none of us is "communicating" but "trying to make the other guilty".

I was feeling hurt at first when he blamed like that, because in Chinese culture, women are weak, men should protect them in any situation. But my boyfriend was now blaming me! I couldn't take this. But the more I think this way, the more arguments happened. Finally, he stopped talking to me and sent me a "Break up Email" [mood11]

To be continued[/quote]

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