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[quote=LEON8ME,282779]LEONARDO, thank you. I think I stretched the topic because I seem to be actively exploring these ideas in real life, lately.

Speaking of real life, my social character has been crunched through the mill of western female character development. I am a survivor of a brutal divorce. Brutal financially as well as emotionally. If a woman's motivation ( no matter what her cultural background ) for involving herself with a man is strictly for financial or legal gain, then eventually ( sooner rather than later ) the partnership will fall apart emotionally. I believe that there is nothing wrong with the idea that the more financially able party in a relationship ( usually, in about 9 out of 10 cases, it is the male ) take an active role in fostering his partner's financial and social condition. The term "gold-digger" only starts to apply when the emotional bonds begin to stress and break.

The difference between western female gold-diggers and Chinese female gold-diggers is that western women have a number of social and political aspects that are just plain biased and frankly, sick, in my opinion. It seems an overwhelmingly large number of western women have developed a cynical mindset regarding all males. I like to be able to have an intelligent conversation with a woman. I like intelligent minds. I don't, however, like "ball-busting" cynicism, jadedness, and negativity. Especially if the woman combines that ball-busting cynicism with large predatory eyes focused exclusively on my wallet.

Independence, steadfastness, and intelligence are positive attributes. In contrast; jadedness, ignorance, and a social style of cynicism and sarcasm are very clearly negative.

In nearly every communication that I have had with Chinese women, I have noticed that they have not been cynical, they have not been sarcastic, they do not seem world-weary and jaded, and they are not ignorant. In fact, I have noticed that Chinese women seem to be genuine, sincere, optimistic, and open-minded. This is attractive to me, and it is in stark contrast with what I see coming from nearly every western woman.[/quote]

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