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[quote=GUEST04118,366236]I would add this:... Western woman have been lucky in some ways to freely express their opinions openly.
Chinese Woman has not this priveledge under the "face" culture that has exsisted in china for thousands of years.

What westerners don't get: is the values that the chinese hold concerning Family. As many follow the "confusus methodolgy" (in thought mainly these days), The family is the most important.

Eastern man forgets he must cherish his woman ever so much for being such a "true of heart person who will follow him to his death if need be.

The values of the "true Chinese woman" before marriage is something that every man alive on this planet really needs to cherish. Not just by means of "money" but mostly by the means of being responsible for this other person.

The Chinese woman of true heart will serve her man not only because this is what has been taught and drummed into the mind over thousands of years developing from a mere habit of social culture now truned into a heritage trait, but most importantly she only wants to carry her own bloodline and that of the man so chose to marry. (even ones that had their man chosen for them cherish this man to death because that is the way a woman is built to.... to nurture.... first their man then her children and grandchildren.

The one thing that is springing up in china in recent times, (which I like) is the modern Chinese woman of 2 cycles, is looking not for the "right- perfect match for them but they want security in their life and now some have strated a trend in choosing their man wisely. Depending upon the person and how strong willed she is, these woman, will refuse their parents choice for them if the man chosen is not upto providing this security for them.

This is where the "honest of heart and true" Chinese woman is turning toward foreigners as they believe that there is a better chance to be treated as a gift and not just a breeding stock to pass the mans genetic along to another generation.

I find it interesting to see some comments from others that really have no idea or want to understand the Chinese woman. They only want to "@#$%" them silly. this is both western and Chinese men not one or the other. both sides see the same thing.

I disgust in the western men that go to china have good time with a bright, beautiful, fresh Chinese woman of nearly 2 cycles old. As these men leave the woman devastated and life ruined because they have been cheated by the type of ignorant man. Their families have to pick up the pces (if they come from a loving family), if not then hell is faced by the woman that thought she could marry and serve that man for the rest of her life.

These men give westerners a bad name: bad taste in the chinese peoples mouths that others of true heart nust now suffer. Such a digusting attitude of some men from the west.

Don't get me wrong:  I said before that the same applies to the Chinese man too just he gets away with it...so far...[/quote]

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