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"Asian women are more feminine but they are more often followers. They want someone more successful than they are. Just to make my point, we know two female doctors here who are both married to plumbers. Can you imagine any Asian woman doing that? Because I can't. That would be totally ridiculous in Asia."

CHYNAGYRL,  I am wondering how to reply to your post.  "Asian women are more feminine" but they are more often followers.  Here are two key words: " Feminine" and "Followers". Does "being feminine" mean " to be followers"?  From what you said, I guess you have a deep understanding of Asian women. (Af least, you think that you think you did understand Asian women well.) Otherwise, I think you wouldn't have declared a generalization about Asian women.   It is true that Asian women are feminine, but that doesn't mean we are followers. Especially in this new era, Chinese women also values independence, freedom and self-actualization.

It seems that  in your eyes, a marriage between "a doctor and a plumber ' is ridiculous. You  said you can't. But the case(doctor and plumber) you mentioned is also possible in China.  Chynagyl,  I am sorry to you have a strong gender stereotype of Asian women.

"more and more Asian men have mistresses. That's a secret way of solving their dissatisfaction or boredom with their marriage."  So, you blame Asian women for the failure of marriage. Western men keep mistresses,too. Why?  Keeping mistresses are the immoral behaviors of men. That's  not women's fault, pls. 
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