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[quote=GUEST15049,279097]Ni hao everybody,

we think that we should or should not say or do this and that, but the fact is their is a psychological study that concluded there are about couple (I think it was 5 or bit less) of different types of personalities regarding love and what their needs are to feel beloved and accepted.

Unfortunately I dont remember this very accurately but it goes something like this:

WANTS TO HEAR:
He/she wants to hear from their love mate that they are beloved, they may want to hear it often to feel beloved and/or accepted, other things may not work at all like physical contact or material things (see below what they mean).

WANTS TO FEEL (physically):
He/she wants to be carressed, hugged and kissed to feel beloved...

WANTS GIFTS:
He/she wants material things that confirms they are beloved, things like flowers and jewels etc...

ok, thats three as I dont remember more, but this should give a good picture.

Anyhow this boils down to that we just have to more or less get acquainted with our love mate what his or her needs are, their are no recipe and shortcuts, but even if we are perhaps lousy about love... just to be aware about this is a great improvement and may open our minds to be even more receptable for those subtle signals from our precious. ^^

Regards from "Fen Lan" ^^[/quote]

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