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[quote=GUEST19836,284892]I am a white American woman and I love Chinese men. I have a crush on a Chinese guy at work as a matter of fact but I don't know if he would ever go out with me. I would happily date Chinese men if they ever showed any interest in me. But in my experience I have found that Asians in general are very self-segregating and this creates a huge barrier to women like me who want to meet eligible Chinese men. And I also get this vibe when I'm in the Asian-dominated parts of town that they just don't like Americans very much.

I dated a Japanese man for a very long time and I started getting kind of immersed in the Asian mindset. It was really amazing to me to observe American behavior from Asian eyes, and I have to say I can understand why a lot of it is so off-putting to Asians. Americans talk loud, laugh loud, girls hang all over their boyfriends in public and vice versa, lots of PDA, revealing clothes, sloppiness, and just generally attention-getting behaviors all the time.

I love my country, but yes culturally it seems like Asians and Westerners are like oil and water, so maybe that's why Asians self-segregate and Chinese men don't marry Western women.[/quote]

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