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[quote=DESTRUCKDOZ,326797]Shesgottobe,

Perhaps its hard for you to understand because of the cultural pressures associated with marriage in China and Chinese families living abroad. A common question a distant relative may ask you after a long absence away in college would be "How is school going" where as a Chinese relative may ask "When will you marry". Pressure to marry is always around the corner, whenever I speak of financial matters (moving to another home) or career related (What kind of project I am working on), my parents always make sure that I keep in mind that I have to get married soon (Making sure home is not too small and that working too much will make wife sad) Which is where arranged marriages comes into play. Some parents still believe in that type of marriage, slapping two strangers together believing it will work out, and for a girl to require the husband to have a house is very savvy decision because, would you marry a man who wanted you to sign a prenuptial agreement?[/quote]

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