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[quote=AMPILOT,359039]Thanks Bobert and so many others who have commented, regardless of your opinion of all this.  With few exception your opinions have been received respectfully and listened to.  Nontheless.  I came here knowing full well  no one was going to approve,  I'm glad a few understand that these situations arise from circumstances a little more complicated and  involved that you might think.

The person I am really trying to understand is HER,  which is why I came here to begin with.  Unfortunately, she is not here. Well, I guess I could invite her, wouldn't that make for some great reading.  Maybe not.    In any case, I heard back from her today after several days of silence since I suggested we just be friends. We talked on the phone some. She is glad to be my friend, wished me a happy valentines day. Looks forward to my next visit  (looks like in about 2-3 weeks I have to go back there - no really - I actually have to go back there because of work)

Those of  you either from China, or know it real well, tell me if its unusual  for a younger woman to kind of have this sort of relationship with a older guy, especially a foreignor and who is a married man.  Does society really frown on  it(of course it does) but somehow tolerates it in certain circumstances. Is there a segment of society where this is not unusual?  The ladies who get into that situation, why do they do it,  they want no commitments but enjoy the attention?  Or do they think if they wait it out, they can have it all? Or is just a thrill by newly independent women? I am not sure what it is with her, next time I see her I am going to ask, but would enjoy hearing from you folks most knowledgheable about China, what might be going on here?[/quote]

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