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"Keeping mistresses are the immoral behaviors of men."

Yes and no: of course it is the guy's problem since he chose to have someone else to have fun with. But this means that they didnt choose the right person originally or that they should be divorced, but because of the necessity in Asia to preserve the family unity, they prefer to take someone else. Yes it means they are not satisfied so they can be blamed for it but it also means that many women accepted to be their mistress... Why do you think their are so many prostitutes in Shanghai ? Maybe because they get bored of their marriage. You can be married since you had an unwanted children or if you want to live with your girl friend you have to marry most of the time, still today... But a girlfriend is a girlfriend not a wife so if to have an independant life you have to marry then it has to be easier to divorce and then you ll see that the number of mistress is decrising. The problem in China is that divorce is not well seen while being already common in Europe.
I m not saying it is a good thing, but to solve your problems, you need to change the status of marriage in people 's mind.

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"Asian women are more feminine but they are more often followers. They want someone more successful than they are. Just to make my point, we know two female doctors here who are both married to plumbers. Can you imagine any Asian woman doing that? Because I can't. That would be totally ridiculous in Asia."

Yes this remark is absurd, usually in Europe but not only we find our wife or husband on the work place. But that you may find your love somewhere else happens everywhere on Earth, no matter he is an unknown singer, a team manager or a plumber... These cases exist everywhere on Earth without distinction (hopefully if not it would mean woman are only interested on money or likness which is quite a superficial behaviour...)

Asian women are most of the time as feminine as European ones. It completly depends on the person: no general opinion can be given on this point: behaviour varies from a person to another. The main difference is that Europeans are now completly and widely independant since marriage is no more an obligation, that they enjoy their freedom. Maybe it looks like guy 's behaviour since it is not a traditional behaviour for women, but actually it doesnt prevent a woman from looking perfectly feminine.[/quote]

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