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[quote=NEXUSBOY,288608]MARRIE to put it simply a lady that doesnt act like a wounded animal is my ideal lady. In all the years I have travelled abroad, Im never more bemused about the complexities between men and women than in western countries. It always seems gender equality is such a big fixation in most situations there, almost to the point of completely detracting from getting to know one another genuinely. As LEON8ME said before, western women generally have a strongly biased political and social perception that almost always comes from some interpretation of what it means to be feminist minded. Primarily western women who deride the position of a man in a relationship yet feel entitled to more than their giving back. And anyone in my opinion male or female who always lead with an underlying agenda in all things ie dating, work, socialising with friends, can almost certainly come across as bigoted to some degree. That is largely what Im referring to.

However its funny how as soon as you remove this variable or look at other cultures of women, then suddenly there seems to be an onus on personal responsibility on what the outcomes of any relationship becomes. And not a position whereby one party or another expects something to materialise because of what feminism dictates or what their percieved entitlements are as a man or woman. You could argue that the many developing countries out there that feminism hasnt had as big an impact have women who are more submissive than western women, and hence men prefer this. And you could also argue that this therefore is disadvantageous to women and hence men are better served in this kind of arrangement. But I have been to many of those societies and women are anything but submissive or ignorant to what they want in life, especially if dealing with latin women. So instead my only conclusion is that women not tainted by the heavy hand of feminism, have a more realistic perspective in what a family unit requires for a successful marriage, and also a more empathic understanding between herself and her husband, not something that is as easy to accomplish when pursuing lofty feminist ideals that often border on selfishness and the unrealistic. Again Im all for equality but not when it becomes a convoluted affair on what is appropriate and what isnt to the point of utter banality. Foreign women seem to be able to look inward alot more readily and find balance, than the western women who look outwardly for direction only to find what other feminist girlfriends advise to be even more confusing than what they began with.[/quote]

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